tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8104692645589867745.post2819384293035497293..comments2024-03-15T04:04:44.541-06:00Comments on The Anarchist Soccer Mom: A Joint Statement from Sarah and LizaAnarchist Soccer Momhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/18104642282433680432noreply@blogger.comBlogger256125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8104692645589867745.post-70359407966941921442015-07-18T08:55:12.680-06:002015-07-18T08:55:12.680-06:00Very helpful information. I wait for next article
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I thank you for sharing your story - my ki...Liza, <br /><br />I thank you for sharing your story - my kindest regards to those blessed with the privilege of not understanding what living with a mentally ill child is like. How could they know? The fact that our culture assumes all contuct problems and aggression stem from poor parenting is devistatingly dangerous to the families dealing with a child like this and trying despirately to get help. My husband and I have been to extreme lengths and efforts in treating our son's Conduct Disorder-Severe-Childhood Onset/ADHD/half dozen other minor diagnoses, and at the end of all of them found that the social services world provides one main option to a family: "You deal with it; we'll write a report once the worst happens." I do not intend this statement as a criticism of mental health and social service providers; most of them have been sincerely caring. Yet, we found that no solutions existed for us. Sadly, we made our own; it cost all we had to remove our son perminantly from our home to prevent him from killing our other children, but we did it. And it has been the best thing we could have done in a horrible situation. (To all who feel obligated to leverage your opinion regarding our choice, don't bother; just be grateful that you can't imagine doing the same. Count yourself lucky to not know or understand.) Liza, I urge you to look at the safety issues you are dealing with in your home from a more removed perspective. You are slowly accepting the abnormal as normal. This insidious process masks itself in the cloak of unconditional love and faithful duty. Be careful. Your other children need you to see them as well - to see their fear and pain and their need for a safe family. I'm not advocating relinquishing rights or responsibilities, but that you maintain your demand that safety be the first priority, no matter what. These kinds of conditions in one child devour families and destroy souls; remember that you have the right to keep your other children safe as well. To those reading who are interested in a national forum on health care for the mentally ill, I ask that you keep talking. If there had been any such help at the end of all our long efforts with our son, he would have remained a part of our family. I searched for any safe option, and there were none. Yes, we need to treat mental illness, and we need to help families dealing with major safety issues. Most psychiatric care facilities are good - the ones our son went to certainly treated him with kindness and dignity - but they are astronomically expensive, have long waiting lists and provide short term respite even in the face of ongoing danger to safety. "Help!" is right! There is a lot of help needed and it's damn hard to find and access it. Liza, good luck and God's grace. In parting I will tell you qualitatively that while your son's behavior is alarming and should be taken very seriously, it sounds like he has a conscience. If he does, thank God for that; you might have something to work with as you navigate your family's individual path.WalkingWellMomhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14975072378825820944noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8104692645589867745.post-85115935162063900642013-01-06T22:06:13.637-07:002013-01-06T22:06:13.637-07:00Ms. Long,
I realize I'm a little late and the...Ms. Long,<br /><br />I realize I'm a little late and the storm has blown over. However, I would like to say something that comes from my personal experience having a psychopathic sibling. My parents did not stop and consider how he was acting around me when they were not there. Needless to say, his behaviour did not improve when he and I were alone. Your other children are at significant risk, not just from what they see their troubled sibling doing when supervision is around, but from how he is most certainly acting towards them when the children are alone.<br /><br />I am not trying to demonize your troubled child. However, reality is reality, and your other children are in severe danger of development major mental health issues because of him. They may act okay now, but as they age and face adult responsibilities their issues will come out.<br /><br />Please consider any and all steps required to keep your troubled child from impacting his siblings.Efhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06708752541896000251noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8104692645589867745.post-59541391959290086162012-12-30T20:27:39.616-07:002012-12-30T20:27:39.616-07:00you call yourself an anarchist, maybe your son in ...you call yourself an anarchist, maybe your son in out of control because your household is an anarchy, his father is not around obviously, just the occasional boyfriends you bring around. stop asking the government to raise you son for you, you do it yourself, you poison your son, you are scum Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08542712815452980274noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8104692645589867745.post-76708815899147150232012-12-30T20:27:11.173-07:002012-12-30T20:27:11.173-07:00you call yourself an anarchist, maybe your son in ...you call yourself an anarchist, maybe your son in out of control because your household is an anarchy, his father is not around obviously, just the occasional boyfriends you bring around. stop asking the government to raise you son for you, you do it yourself, you poison your son, you are scum Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08542712815452980274noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8104692645589867745.post-16737546695068754022012-12-30T20:26:26.050-07:002012-12-30T20:26:26.050-07:00you call yourself an anarchist, maybe your son in ...you call yourself an anarchist, maybe your son in out of control because your household is an anarchy, his father is not around obviously, just the occasional boyfriends you bring around. stop asking the government to raise you son for you, you do it yourself, you poison your son, you are scum Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08542712815452980274noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8104692645589867745.post-22277893276100197812012-12-30T20:26:03.817-07:002012-12-30T20:26:03.817-07:00you call yourself an anarchist, maybe your son in ...you call yourself an anarchist, maybe your son in out of control because your household is an anarchy, his father is not around obviously, just the occasional boyfriends you bring around. stop asking the government to raise you son for you, you do it yourself, you poison your son, you are scumAnonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08542712815452980274noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8104692645589867745.post-55537685167221961722012-12-30T20:25:23.552-07:002012-12-30T20:25:23.552-07:00This comment has been removed by the author.Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08542712815452980274noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8104692645589867745.post-19330139866986772472012-12-28T21:39:53.375-07:002012-12-28T21:39:53.375-07:00I am Lisa Long's Daughter
My mother labeled m...I am Lisa Long's Daughter<br /><br />My mother labeled me as mentally ill when I was 12 to avoid taking on any responsibility for my issues. I was sent to mental hospitals. I was sent to a behavior modification facility. Countless doctors and lots of meds with horrible side effects. When I was 17, I was forced to sign a contract admitting I was mentally ill and promising to be on medication the rest of my life to get out of reform school. My mother wouldn’t rest until I had a diagnosis that absolved her. And yes, I yelled and screamed and acted out. I did so because I had no voice, no respect, and was not allowed to make any boundaries whatsoever. When I was 18 she gave me poetry she wrote that spoke of how she was a victim of my illness. I still remember the words "a child with a critical defect". I burned the poems but the words still haunt me to this day. I am an adult now with the perspective of 18 years of parenting my own child. We do need to change the conversation about mental illness in this country, but what Long ironically, and unintentionally points out, is that a big part of the conversation needs to be about the family dynamic. That parents contribute, that society contributes, and that no psychiatric professional and no prescription can heal the child of a mother with a victim complex until the family dynamic is addressed. As my mother does, Long's son has a right to privacy and anonymity. No Horrible tragedy takes away a mothers responsibility to protect her child. My heart goes out to Michael. He deserves better. fixitsurprisehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10391860427343294072noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8104692645589867745.post-67985357091136535792012-12-26T11:45:25.335-07:002012-12-26T11:45:25.335-07:00Just a note to say I SUPPORT you as a blogger, mot...Just a note to say I SUPPORT you as a blogger, mother, & advocate for your child.<br /><br />What's with the negative comments? Am I missing something?<br /><br />This is the problem w/ this country. We are secret keepers.<br /><br />Thanks for speaking out...<br /><br />NEVER STOP!!!myinnerchick.comhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07523772091083412278noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8104692645589867745.post-72612586201159813682012-12-26T06:32:06.329-07:002012-12-26T06:32:06.329-07:00http://onlyifyoulistenautismspeaks.blogspot.com/
...http://onlyifyoulistenautismspeaks.blogspot.com/<br /><br />read my blog Liza, it might answer your questions.Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16992557983256690708noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8104692645589867745.post-36556715417642662902012-12-24T00:50:34.361-07:002012-12-24T00:50:34.361-07:00This is incredibly annoying. Is this what blogging...This is incredibly annoying. Is this what blogging has become- releasing "PR statements"? Both of you are issuing a joint statement because you were both accused of capitalizing on the tragedy in Newtown. The integrity of blogging is compromised when faux PR statements are released due to controversial opinions being publicized. Just be yourselves ladies. You don't have to like each other or get along, and you definitely don't need to be releasing these Pollyanna statements together :::eye role:::<br />Lorrainehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06710269114380710072noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8104692645589867745.post-35332922992912114002012-12-23T08:25:58.414-07:002012-12-23T08:25:58.414-07:00I am the "father" Of Adam Lanza. I supp...I am the "father" Of Adam Lanza. I support you and hug my 19 year old son. I worry about him. You are correct in your post and I support you and thank you for saying what I am afraid to.<br /><br />peace<br /><br />John GrosskurthScreamin' Monkeyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06197156590155766272noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8104692645589867745.post-22647398068509665662012-12-22T22:36:30.518-07:002012-12-22T22:36:30.518-07:00You are a horrible breeder and your entire family ...You are a horrible breeder and your entire family a waste of space.bagelmolesterhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04118750881181794226noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8104692645589867745.post-10378669517041301002012-12-22T22:35:29.129-07:002012-12-22T22:35:29.129-07:00You are a horrible breeder, you really, really are...You are a horrible breeder, you really, really are.bagelmolesterhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04118750881181794226noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8104692645589867745.post-77636586939877028202012-12-22T14:28:31.338-07:002012-12-22T14:28:31.338-07:00I actually think your a worse person for not sayin...I actually think your a worse person for not saying what you feel so bite your tongue till it bleeds and open your eyes to the real world your sitting there trying to tell someone who is grown to grow up because you dont agree with their statements shows you have a weak mind you are just as naive as the mother who wrote this and Nancy Lanza I would put money on the fact your kids are stronger then you and more then likely run over you thats why you have to reply to what im saying but then back down when you dont wanna hear anymore instead of debating it I will leave you with this statement I always tell my kids....Small Minds can't comprehend big spirits. To be great, you have to be willing to be mocked, hated, and misunderstood.....maybe you should take this advice too YouMUSTSaySomethingNICE https://www.blogger.com/profile/13514689240862992428noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8104692645589867745.post-37341017342069874502012-12-22T14:02:14.757-07:002012-12-22T14:02:14.757-07:00Rocheal,
I will be the better person here and bite...Rocheal,<br />I will be the better person here and bite my tongue and not tell you honestly how I feel about you and your comments. I will say you have a lot of learning and growing up to do. Good luck to you.brokenheartedhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17952434073295418357noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8104692645589867745.post-3718809458624323572012-12-22T13:50:54.774-07:002012-12-22T13:50:54.774-07:00My children have never made me feel unsafe or thre...My children have never made me feel unsafe or threatened to hurt anyone its not bullying its facts there are warning signs parents ignore and then they are like "i dont know why this awful thing happened he used to kill animals but he liked to hunt so we thought it was ok" wake up smell the coffee what I said is the truth to many kids do not get what they need because parents think they can handle it when they cant and yes I am teaching my kids to be honest and to say exactly what they feel without sugar coating it I have taught them some soft hearted people will take offense to what they say but other people who are strong will respect their opinion and respect them for their honest because honesty hurtful or not is always better then not saying something and regretting it later any other questions????YouMUSTSaySomethingNICE https://www.blogger.com/profile/13514689240862992428noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8104692645589867745.post-16582655366243495492012-12-22T13:31:28.163-07:002012-12-22T13:31:28.163-07:00Rocheal,
Really? Let me guess, you are perfect as ...Rocheal,<br />Really? Let me guess, you are perfect as well as any children you might have. I won't result in name calling here like you did. I'm wondering though, are you teaching your children that the sort of behavior you have in your comment is acceptable? Isn't the hate I see in your words a form of bullying? Just an observation. brokenheartedhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17952434073295418357noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8104692645589867745.post-27007228195171648452012-12-22T12:12:46.046-07:002012-12-22T12:12:46.046-07:00WOW YOUR AFRAID OF YOUR SON??? HE HAS THREATENED T...WOW YOUR AFRAID OF YOUR SON??? HE HAS THREATENED TO KILL YOU????? IT PISSES ME OFF THAT MOTHERS HAVE ALL THESE WARNING SIGNS AND THEY IGNORE THEM IM HERE TO SAY *WARNING**WARNING**WARNING* HE NEEDS TO BE LOCKED UP IN A MENTAL FACILITY THAT HAS SOMEONE WITH PROFESSIONAL EXPERIENCE 100% OF THE TIME ITS MOTHERS LIKE YOU THAT SAY BUT MY CHILD IS SMART JUST A LITTLE DIFFERENT....THERE IS A REASON THEY HAVE THAT LITTLE SAYING......TO SMART FOR YOUR OWN GOOD.....AND THE FACT YOU THINK YOU CAN SIT HERE AND THINK YOUR CAPABLE TO HANDLE THE SITUATION WHEN YOUR CLEARLY NOT I PRAY TO GOD MY KIDS NEVER GO TO SCHOOL OR BE IN ANY PUBLIC PLACE WITH YOUR CHILD WHO IS A LOOSE CANNON AND AT ANY MOMENT HE CAN HURT SOMEONE OR WORSE KILL THEM.....I DO THINK IF YOUR CHILD DOES HURT SOMEONE YOU SHOULD BE HELD 100% ACCOUNTABLE FOR HIS ACTIONS BECAUSE YOU QUITE CLEARLY KNOW HE HAS ISSUES BUT YET YOU LET HIM SOCIALIZE WITH THE PUBLIC NANCY AND YOU ARE THE SAME WOMAN NAIVE AND FULL OF THEM SELVES WITH TO MUCH PRIDE TO GET THE CARE THEIR KIDS REALLY NEED BECAUSE YOU DONT WANT TO SAY YOUR KIDS IN A HOME FULL TIME CAUSE HE CANT MENTALLY HANDLE THE REAL WORLD HES IN A HOME GET A LIFE AND GET A CLUEYouMUSTSaySomethingNICE https://www.blogger.com/profile/13514689240862992428noreply@blogger.com